Tuesday, November 29, 2005

What goes around comes around...

Not such a bad day today as I got lots of work done in the morning, had a big talk to sort some things in my personal life and finally got a chance to go out with another close friend to listen to her suffer about some bad experiences in her life.

We use to work together at a English Language school in Hanoi for about 6 months and she trying to get her money back from the corrupted and evil management. Well she needed to vent tonight and tell me the horror she went through today and enough is enough.

I am very glad tonight that I can help her as much as I can to deal with these issues as she has been providing me with support and guidance when I am hurting from my issues. I hope we both can learn from our lessons tonight and become stronger when facing these encounters in the future.

Something caught my mind tonight and the true value of give and take. You know that when you really "give" into something soo much you really need to understand the "take" as well. If you don't receive any "take" and you constantly "give", then the suffering and the uncertainties occurs giving that relations or event and bad experience. On the other hand, from a moral perspective, does "giving" with no expectation of "take" means unconditional love?